tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17787850.post115540749543077352..comments2015-08-21T13:32:09.760-07:00Comments on CyberGalsBlog: Excellent Feedback and Friends.CyberGalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10528589788766721922noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17787850.post-1155877601081631482006-08-17T22:06:00.000-07:002006-08-17T22:06:00.000-07:00Wow! Steven, you see something totally different i...Wow! Steven, you see something totally different in my friend's comment then I do! This is fascinating to me. I have the joy of liking and enjoying both of you. Though you are worlds apart in many ways.<BR/><BR/> I thank you for a very different perspective. Like a lot your other fine work, it will take me days to actually figure out the depth and reasoning in your thinking.<BR/><BR/> Do know, in my opinion, you've read the motivation of this feedback incorrectly. I like having people in my life that can reduce the disability struggel as he has done. Chosen, or not, a limit is a limit. Depending on the context, both of you are right. I do not feel discounted, or 'put down' from the 'limit' example. <BR/><BR/>I do, however, understand your anger and strong reaction to these comments. I am more of an activist for mental health issues, then physical disability issues. There is a time when you have to fight to be seen in the context of a disability, I seem to be calmer about a lot of those issues, at this time in my recovery. <BR/><BR/>I am really thankful I have both of you in my world. It makes my world an amazingly diverse and interesting place.CyberGalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10528589788766721922noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17787850.post-1155874922373403232006-08-17T21:22:00.000-07:002006-08-17T21:22:00.000-07:00I don't really like this guy's idiotic chastisemen...I don't really like this guy's idiotic chastisement of you.<BR/><BR/>Comparing his voluntary lack of knowledge of plumbing and other macho interests to your involuntary disabilities is beyond callous and unkind.<BR/><BR/>His lack of knowledge about topics of macho male conversation and action, like plumbing, calling it a "limitation" is ridiculous.<BR/><BR/>Then for him to act like you are retarded for thinking that serving in church is a method of socializing, this is heinous and repulsive.<BR/><BR/>What a jerk. People DO socialize in the church clean up crew, and they even get territorial and hierarchical about it, unfortunately.<BR/><BR/>There is much chitchatting as the men paint the steps and the ladies prepare food.<BR/><BR/>This guy seems to be picking on you, to make himself look smarter.<BR/><BR/>I don't like it.steven edward streighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05401227642461826748noreply@blogger.com